その人が自分のものでなければ苦痛を味わわず、心も痛まない。しかし、自分のものになれば、その人が間違った分だけ心を痛め、苦痛を味わう。
If that person is not yours, you will not experience suffering and your heart too will not be troubled. However, if they become yours, you are troubled and suffer as much as they do wrong.
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